"Just because you’re truly over your last toxic relationship/situationship/friendship who made your life a living hell, doesn’t mean you have to pretend that you wish that person well... That’s where 'Friendly Reminder' comes in"
Stella. (Musician & Composer)
With this captivating introductory phrase written by the artist himself, many of us can already connect with the theme of this remarkable song. Who hasn’t felt something similar about a past relationship? Stella., a gifted singer-songwriter from New York, presents his latest creation titled "Friendly Reminder," a powerful pop-rock piece where he boldly and sincerely addresses how we feel after ending things with that person who hurt us.
Phrases like “you have to move on,” “don’t hold a grudge,” and many other cliché motivational sayings that people tell you to simply make you feel better are definitely not in Stella.'s style. In fact, we would dare to say that almost all of us hold a bit of resentment inside and hope that karma does its job when someone consciously breaks our heart. This is how Stella. has said ENOUGH, and this song perfectly reflects that feeling.
Throughout its 3 minutes and 10 seconds of duration, "Friendly Reminder" becomes a true emotional release against the excessive positivity prevalent in today’s society. Iconic phrases that accompany its verses and choruses, such as “I just wanna say, if I had water to waste, I wouldn’t put you out if you were on fire” and “Baby, I hate to bear the bad news, but nobody can fix whatever’s broken in you,” make this piece resonate with you, making you feel more understood than anyone else ever could.
This innate ability to communicate a message so effectively through music reveals not only the greatness of this remarkable artist and his skill in connecting with the audience but also something inherent in music itself, which we often overlook when deciding how to behave with others.
Have you ever wondered why we listen to sad music when we’re feeling down? It seems ridiculous; we should just be tuning into something cheerful to bring back our smiles. But since that’s never the case, why do we continue to do it? To make ourselves even sadder? The truth is, possibly. Often, we’re just looking to feel like someone shares our feelings, rather than seeking a definitive solution to the problem. This is exactly what "Friendly Reminder" does; it’s your subconscious shouting everything you can’t express, while also serving as that close friend who, no matter what happens, stays with you, listening attentively as you break free from all the frustration you’ve been holding inside. After all, this is why we seek refuge in music, and Stella. has perfectly understood and captured this in his song.
Stella.'s proposal with "Friendly Reminder" even dares to take a step further, as the creativity of this talented artist knows no bounds. To enhance his release, he has created his own dating app called 'Cringe.'
This innovative idea stems from the very inspiration that gives life to this song. Stella states, “Since this song is about an ex I met on a dating app, as a promotional tool, I created my own dating app.”
If you enjoyed "Friendly Reminder," we invite you to explore more of Stella.'s music by checking out his complete discography, which you can find at the following link. Also, don’t forget to follow him on social media to stay updated on his upcoming projects and new releases!